17-18 month

Week 69: An Easy Guide to Redirecting Challenging Behavior

Child having a tantrum, illustrating a challenging behavior moment where redirection and calming strategies can be applied.

Redirecting challenging behavior involves gently guiding your toddler away from undesirable actions and towards more positive activities. This approach emphasizes teaching rather than punishing, making it a constructive way to handle difficult situations.

Expert Tips for Redirection:

  • Offer Choices:
    Give your toddler a sense of control by offering choices. Instead of saying, “Don’t throw your toys,” try, “Would you like to throw this soft ball into the basket or help me build a tower?” This makes them feel involved and important.
  • Use Distractions:
    If your toddler is engaging in undesirable behavior, distract them with something else. For example, if they’re about to have a tantrum, offer a favorite toy or start a fun game. This helps shift their focus to a more positive activity.
  • Redirect Energy:
    Channel your toddler’s energy into appropriate activities. If they’re running indoors, suggest a game of running outside instead. This allows them to expend energy in a safe and acceptable way.

 

By using redirection strategies, you can help your toddler navigate challenging behaviors while teaching them how to make better choices. This approach fosters a positive environment where your child feels guided and supported.

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